Think Relationship Romance
The best thing
about romance in a relationship is that it is shared. While one partner may initiate it, both end
up enjoying any romantic effort. Romance
is a relationship activity and cannot work if both partners aren’t participants. When you decide that romance is the way you
want to go in order to improve your marriage or even work towards having an
outstanding marriage, start planning your romance in advance with both you and
your partner in mind. Even if you are
giving a gift to your partner, keep in mind how it will affect you when you
present it to him or her. Some gifts are
actually meant for both of you although it is presented to only one partner
(ex. Massage oil). Both of you must
enjoy the romance in order for it to be effective in your relationship.
While being
romantic often draws to mind gifts and planning outings together, you don’t
have to spend money in order to be romantic!
You can plan a day where you are completely at your spouse’s disposal. Devote yourself entirely to your spouse for
an entire day. He or she can ask you to
do chores, rub their feet, give them a massage, watch a movie you normally
wouldn’t watch together or try an interest of his or hers that you haven’t
tried. Your spouse may also decide that
you are best put to use in the bedroom!
When you want to
do something extra special, take your spouse on a local ‘honeymoon’ trip! Find a local hotel that has a honeymoon suite
and book it for one night. Do it up right
and make sure it is stocked with champagne, strawberries and whipped
cream. Have flowers and your song
available to play in your room. For her,
have new lingerie laid out on the bed.
For him, have new lingerie laid out on the bed. For an extra special twist, pack a bag for your
spouse, hire a sitter if necessary and tell him or her that you’re going out
for the evening. Blindfold your spouse
and lead him or her to your honeymoon suite.
Find an affordable
card shop or see if your local greeting card store offers any type of multiple
card purchase discounts. Buy as many
cards for your spouse as you can. Store
the cards and send them to your spouse intermittently. You can choose to send them every few months,
every month, every week, each day or every waking hour!
Take the time to
create your own loving edible baked goods for your spouse! Make heart shaped cookies, a heart shaped
cake or make your own heart shaped chocolates.
Find a heart shaped bowl, pop popcorn to serve in the bowl and spend the
entire day watching romantic movies together.
You can take any
or all of these ideas and use them for special occasions or throughout the
year. It doesn’t really matter when or
how you do something romantic as long as you do it together.
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