The Internet dating biz offers thousands of tips and
techniques promising success
with women but almost none teach you what works on today's woman Most
of these hucksters promote outdated old-fogey stuff that just no longer works.
Here is how to date your dream girl of the moment.
The typical sales headline reads: "How To Date
Hot Women!"
They promise to teach you how to score with the
female that turns every head when she walks by. You know the type, she makes
guys drool. These marketers never mention that the girl-next-door type, chances
are, would be a much hotter girl for a relationship.
If it's the super-model type, you can have her. If
it's the average girl, you can have her too. It doesn't matter how she looks to
other guys, it only matters if she "trips your trigger." The girl who
does that for you, is the one you can have if you go about it using the right
techniques.
This even applies to the girl who dumped you for
someone else because, obviously, your technique was not good enough to keep her
hooked. With the right techniques, any woman will be begging you to come back
to her. To her, you will be a brand new man!
Almost every guy that you know wants to date a hot
girl but, and you know this is true, 99% of them never do. They end up dating
someone who will date just about anyone or someone who has a crush on them.
Usually that someone is not in your dream girl category. Am I right?
Why do you think that's true?
The answer is, beautiful girls intimidate most guys.
The average guy thinks too lowly of himself so he never steps up to the plate.
He just sits in the dugout and watches the star players do all the scoring with
these beauties.
Tell me the truth. When you see a woman like this,
you have a fleeting fantasy about what it would be like to be with her, to hold
her, to kiss her, or just to hold hands with her. Your breath shortens a bit
and your heart pounds a bit and it ends there. When it comes time to step up to
the plate and swing the bat, you tell yourself you will surely be a loser.
Is this familiar? Sure it is.
Now here is a little secret that will give you an
edge over 99% of other men: 99% of men are just like you are at this moment.
They make excuses for their lack of courage when it comes time to communicate
with a very attractive woman. Do you see how this can give you an edge?
Would you like to be among the 1% of men who aren't
afraid of being rejected and who know just how to get a date with their dream
girl of the moment? These
are the guys that know, even if they don't score with every dream girl, the odds
are still in their favour. They know that, if they go to bat enough times, they
are going to hit home runs. And, they do!
A good salesperson will not quit until they get the
seventh "No" when they ask the closing question. That's why they are
successful.
Get the point?
In order to have a rich dating life, you have to
step up to the plate and swing the bat. You have to keep asking the closing
questions.
Did you know that "Babe" Ruth held the
record for strike-outs at the same time as holding the record for most home
runs in his career? The "Babe" swung at even the bad pitches. He
could hit the baseball out of the park!
Here is the #1 reason that most men do not approach
women: It is because of a mental block. You are likely suffering from the same
problem if you find yourself paralyzed and unable to approach your dream girl
of the moment. Let's solve your problem right now.
The first thing you need to do is to learn a new way
of thinking about yourself and all women.
This involves convincing yourself that you are really
a worthy guy, someone any woman would be lucky to know on an intimate basis. This
is an exercise in raising your self-esteem which, may I say, is pretty low when
it comes to women. Try these self-talk points or make up your own:
• "I can have a relationship with almost any woman
I choose"
• "Because a woman is beautiful doesn't mean I can't
have her."
• "I love all women and they are attracted to me
too."
• "No woman is too classy for me."
• "Most guys are afraid to try to date beautiful
women. I'm not afraid."
Say these talking points to yourself, out loud if possible,
many times a day.
Believe it or not, adopting a positive attitude about
yourself and how you view women will make you more attractive and interesting to
women. Women read men on an intuitive level, "vibes" if you will, and
your high self-esteem will show through without you uttering a word.
You may find this second trick takes some hit and miss
practice.
You need to discover there is a proven way to successfully
communicate. The major problem you have had with approaching attractive women is
you simply did not know how to flirt with them in the right ways.
You have watched other guys employ old lame techniques
and get rejected time and again. And, without one of the successful 1% to teach
you the right way, you will remain among the failing 99%.
It's a proven fact, creating a connection comes down
to one very powerful technique:
Knowing how to flirt.
Each woman will respond to a certain flirting technique.
If you know how to flirt with each type of woman, you will reach them at a deep
level that most guys fail to understand.
You see 99% of guys fail because they are not focused
on the girl and what she needs.
Let's smash some outdated ideas here.
At first, flirting is never about asking her personal
questions. And, it is never about establishing compatibility. In fact, flirting
can only be quickly successful by avoiding statements that guys often use to find
a common bond.
No, actually, the flirting technique is about creating
intimacy. It’s that delicate balance between teasing a woman, while making her want
your focused attention. And, whatever you do, do not compliment her at this stage
of the game. That's lame and will not work in 99% of the cases. She will see right
through it or might even have low self-esteem herself and simply will not believe
you are sincere. You will be surprised at how many really beautiful women have low
self-esteem!
Instead, boldly approach her and employ methods that
will create that emotional connection that you must have for all successful flirting
conversations! You’ll find that low-key teasing and light conversation are the best
ways to attract and date your dream girl of the moment. In other words: Don't be
so serious!
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